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The Right Distance: How Your Voice Shapes the Space Between You and the Results You Deserve
If you work hard but still feel unseen, the issue isn’t effort—it’s distance. Learn how your voice shapes the space between you and others, how fear shrinks it, and how boundaries restore it so you can be heard and rewarded at work and in life. Practical scripts, mindset shifts, and a clear framework for leaders, high achievers, and anyone tired of over-giving.

Stephen Matini
Aug 276 min read


Overextension: Why You’re Exhausted and Overlooked (and How to Quit)
You’re not tired because you’re weak, you’re overextended. This article shows how overextension at work drains power, makes you invisible, and how shifting to self-valuation restores energy, respect, and results. Learn the “Where’s the money for me?” test to stop rescuing, set limits, and lead without burning out.

Stephen Matini
Sep 35 min read


Overthinking: How to Make Clear Decisions When Every Voice in Your Head Has Something to Say
Your loudest voice isn’t always your wisest. This article shows how to navigate the “inner choir” of conflicting thoughts, recognize which voices matter, and lead from within. Practical insights on metacognition, Internal Family Systems, and decision-making for overthinkers, self-saboteurs, and rising leaders.

Stephen Matini
Aug 206 min read


Decision-Making: How Do You Move When You Can’t See the Whole Path?
Leaders rarely get the full picture before they must act. This article explores how to move forward with incomplete information, avoid paralysis, and use sensemaking to adapt. A guide for senior leaders, reluctant decision-makers, and anyone stuck waiting for certainty that never comes.

Stephen Matini
Aug 96 min read


Upstream: How to Become Your Boss’s Favorite by Managing Up
Your boss is your most overlooked client and managing up is how you make the relationship thrive. Learn how to anticipate needs, align priorities, and turn this bond into your career’s greatest advantage.

Stephen Matini
Aug 25 min read


Acquiescence: How Not to Turn into a Pressure Cooker
Acquiescence turns professionals into pressure cookers — silent, resentful, and on the brink. Learn how stepping back, asking bigger questions, and finding your voice transforms impossible workplace dilemmas into strategic decisions.

Stephen Matini
Jul 265 min read


Pivoting: How to Know When to Shift
Every career, company, and relationship follows an arc: rise, crest, decline. The real edge comes from knowing when momentum has peaked and shifting before it’s too late. Learn how to read the whispers, sense the turn, and act with clarity.

Stephen Matini
Jul 194 min read


Influence: Why Bold Ideas Go Nowhere Without Allies
Even the best ideas fail without allies. Discover why relationships, not logic alone, move bold projects forward, and how to build the support you need.

Stephen Matini
Jul 124 min read


Strategic Focus: Why We Can’t Think Big When We’re Drowning in the Small
Leaders say they want strategy, then design cultures that reward busyness. This piece shows how to make time for strategy, reduce the “perpetual emergency,” and create conditions where ideas surface and get used. For managers, executives, and teams who need breakthroughs, not more grind.

Stephen Matini
Jul 55 min read


Communication: Why Conversations Shape Who We Become
Breakfast with Stephen is about the space an authentic conversation creates. When people are truly seen and heard, growth, learning, and becoming unfold. This piece shows how presence and dialogue shape identity, trust, and the possibility of change.

Stephen Matini
Jun 284 min read


Eyes on the Course: Why Direction Matters More Than Goals
When goals collapse or shift, direction keeps you moving forward. This article explores how clarity of course, not speed or outcomes, helps founders, creatives, and entrepreneurs stay resilient, adapt, and find long-term motivation even in uncertainty.

Stephen Matini
Jun 214 min read


Reminiscence: Forgiveness Is Choosing What to Carry and What to Leave Behind
Forgiveness is not about excusing the past but choosing what to carry forward. This article explores how resentment shapes boundaries, why letting go matters, and how positive reminiscence preserves what was real while releasing what no longer serves.

Stephen Matini
Jun 144 min read


Golden: The Danger of Chasing the Best and How Real Progress Happens
Chasing “the best” can backfire. This article shows high-achievers how progress really happens: through looseness, adaptability, and presence. Learn why perfectionism kills momentum and how to sustain performance without burnout.

Stephen Matini
May 314 min read


Whole: Why Real Results Come from Alignment, Not Doing Everything Yourself
Real results don’t come from doing everything yourself but from alignment. This article challenges over-functioners and leaders to stop overdelivering, avoid burnout, and focus on coherence, tuning effort to what the system actually needs.

Stephen Matini
May 174 min read


Communication: How Repeating Yourself Is Not a Sign of Failure
This article explores the frustration of repeating yourself in relationships and at work—and why it’s not failure, but the cost of real connection. It’s for anyone tired of not being seen, feeling misunderstood, or carrying the weight of unspoken needs at home, in teams, or leadership.

Stephen Matini
May 34 min read


Grassroots: Why Real Change Starts Quiet
Real change doesn’t start big. It starts small. This article shows how trust, connection, and quiet leadership drive lasting impact from the ground up. For leaders, HR, founders, and teams ready to build resilient change without waiting for top-down permission.

Stephen Matini
Mar 163 min read


Readiness: Why Rushing Change Deepens Resistance
Change doesn't fail because people resist it, resistance deepens when change is rushed. This article explores why timing, alignment, and systemic honesty matter more than big promises or fast rollouts

Stephen Matini
Feb 272 min read


Space: How Presence Builds Trust
Real leadership begins with presence. This article explores how creating space builds trust, encourages innovation, and opens the door to authentic dialogue.

Stephen Matini
Feb 134 min read


Digital Shift: People at the Heart of Transformation
Digital transformation isn’t about the latest tools. This piece explores why the real engine of innovation and adaptability is people, not technology

Stephen Matini
Jan 225 min read


Equanimity: The Dance of Change
Change is not just about speed. This article explores equanimity as the key to balancing action and stillness in high-stakes leadership transitions.

Stephen Matini
Dec 15, 20244 min read
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